There is a great deal of confusion around the nature and character of God. This is understandable as there is a plethora of bad teaching in our media-saturated culture. When faced with this overwhelming dilemma of who to trust it is common for people to excuse themselves from the responsibility of accurately understanding who God is and what he requires.
Do not do that!
This is an eternal mistake. Jesus warned that after him would come many false prophets. Aseity matters because God is not dependent on others and is not created or dependent on creation for his existence. This means that the JWs, Mormons, Islam, etc have a false god that can not save them.
"For the time is coming when people will not endure sound teaching, but having itching ears they will accumulate for themselves teachers to suit their own passions," 2 Timothy 4:3
Please consider the importance of your family and friends and invest in learning theology.
Have a great day! :)